Wisdom in Finances

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While meditating on financial wisdom, I came across this very funny video of a gentleman who was ready to quit his job after buying a winning lottery ticket.  Click the link above to watch this very funny video. I absolutely love this video.  This video shows this guy who is so fed up with his current and very dire financial  situation that he’s made every possible attempt to rectify it, even going as far as succumbing to buying lottery tickets.  I laughed at the fact that the winning lottery ticket he bought, and so dearly longed for, was shredded instantaneously and by accident, thus eliminating his great chances of finally gaining his definition of financial independence”. However; I immediately shuddered at the fact that he absolutely and without a doubt compromised any and every attempts at keeping his current job.  His intention of securing his financial future was destroyed by the fact that this was his one and only chance at financial independence. He put all of his financial independence “eggs” on this one winning lottery ticket “basket”.   What do you suppose ran through his mind as he lost his financial security and his job simultaneously  What did he leave his boss’ office thinking? Do you believe this person learned his lesson, or do you believe he possibly returned to his old ways of  buying more lottery tickets?

“2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do.” James 1:2-8

The book of James begins with challenging believers to be joyful while facing trials of many kinds.  The book states that such trials are meant to help us produce perseverance so that it may finish its work of bringing us to maturity and completion, lacking nothing.

But, how does perseverance actually work? Perseverance, as defined in the dictionary says that it is, “steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.” Doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success… So, should this person persevere in his pursuit of buying more and more lottery tickets, or should he persevere in his pursuits of learning how to become financially independent by seeking help from experts in the field?  What are your thoughts? What would you do?

James continues to unpack just how we would accomplish this “maturity and completeness”.  In verse 5, James unveils the source “maturity and completeness” and that source is Wisdom from God.  I love the fact that James understands that as humans, it is our nature to be lacking in wisdom. I am also comforted by the fact that God willingly wants to shower us with wisdom in generous proportions.  Isn’t a relief that God is ready for us to come before him and ask him for wisdom?  I hope  you didn’t miss the part on verse 5 where James explains that God will not “find fault” in us as we approach him to ask for wisdom.  Wow and wow! I’m blown away by such love and acceptance.  God knows we struggle and he’s completely empathetic and understanding of our situation as we grow in faith.  Its as though God is anticipating what we will feel and how feeling condemned by our financial despair would discourage us from seeking his help and from coming before his presence. He has already prepared a way for us to approach him in love and with complete and utter acceptance.  Don’t you just want to stop what you are doing and praise God right now? Go ahead, I won’t tell anyone.  Click here for a funny praise break!

Okay, now that you’re back from your praise break, let’s resume the teaching.  The latter half of the passage presents an even greater challenge. While we are able to come to God freely and we are also able to ask him for abundant wisdom, which He clearly has and which He clearly wants to generously give to you, guess what? It requires you to BELIEVE and not doubt that he’s going to give you such abundant wisdom. Do you find it challenging to accept the fact that God’s plans for you are good? Do you find it difficult to see God as this loving and amazing Father who showers his Creation with good things? Don’t feel alone in your faith-journey. I remember a time when the concept of a generous Creator was hard for me to buy into. I was raised with an image of God the Wrathful.  It wasn’t until I fully read the bible that I understood God’s primordial message.  To love me and for me to love Him and His creation.  My prayer for you is that you take time right now and ask God to help you with your unbelief and that this season of unbelief is so short that you can quickly return to the pathways of wisdom and blessings.  I pray right now that you are overcome with the Spirit of Wisdom and that it supersedes your decisions henceforth.

Now that you’ve prayed that prayer and for the ones that have accepted God’s wonderful blessings,  what are you to do now, with your awesome self full of abundant wisdom?  What are those pesky habits of yours that keep you in financial ruin?  Is it the inability to see the benefits of creating and maintaining a budget? I know many people who just despise the notion of a budget.  Is it that shopping has become therapy to medicate a condition that you’ve needed to bring to the feet of Christ?

My prayer for you today is that others do not refer to you as “double-minded and unstable”. It is my prayer that you begin to take God at His word and believe that he wants to grant you wisdom. He wants to see you fully complete and fully mature.  The blessings from financial maturity look like many things for many people. What does financial maturity look like for you? Comment below. We would love to hear how God is working in you and what your financial maturity looks like to you.

Be abundantly blessed with wisdom today!

In Christ,

Cecilia

 

 

 

The Power of the Other

There was a moment in time when I was a SERIOUS people-pleaser.  In other words, I was co-dependent.  What is co-dependency you ask? Well, I’m glad you asked. According to Psychology Today, co-dependency is  “.. supporting others in their dysfunction at your own peril, at a cost to yourself.”

There was no better example of co-dependency in my life than my fervor to support my family financially.  I worked tirelessly and endlessly in order to make sure that our bills got paid on time and that my family had what they needed. But there was one problem, I WAS THE ONLY ONE TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE FINANCES OF OUR HOME.  I was married at the time and my husband fell ill.  His illness consumed his life and it ended up taking his life.

Being the sole provider of my home was very challenging and I had to learn to fend for myself in all areas of my life.  I didn’t feel capable, so I began to seek out resources that would help me navigate through this new season of my life. The very first resource that I considered  a game-changer is a book called, “Boundaries”.  If you’ve not yet read it, do yourself a favor and get it today. Click on the link below to take you directly to Amazon where you can purchase the book.   http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/0310247454/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1460396882&sr=8-1&keywords=boundaries

I learned so many things through this book. The most important thing I learned was the ABILITY TO SAY NO TO PEOPLE AND/OR THINGS.  I understood that my voice, like other people’s voices, MATTERS.  My thoughts matter. My feelings matter, but most importantly; I matter.

I had to take a very close look at the people around me and to check their motivations and intentions for being my friend. I had to ask myself and ask  of them to give me the reason why they wanted to be my friend. What did they hope to GAIN from me?  What did THEY get out of being close to me?

Now, you may or may not agree with my methods in seeking out friendships, and that’s okay. What I do know, is that by being THAT honest with myself and that honest with my close circle, really helped me to learn about myself and others.  I learned that there were people in my close circle that were only there to watch me fall. There were others that made themselves feel better by criticizing me and my life, choices, and I learned that there were those who GENUINELY AND SINCERELY LOVED ME. After all that analysis, I found that those people were my sons, my extended family, Liliana Garcia, Veronica Alaniz, and Jeannette Rubalcado, to be exact.

I’m grateful I sat myself down and analyzed friendships and relationships.  I’m grateful that I asked those questions and got to the answers, even though truth hurt sometimes. But I’m most grateful that I am now better able to discern people and their intentions.

I titled this blog, “The Power of the Other” simply because that is the name of the book that I’m reading now.  I encourage you to preorder it and dive deep into it.  I’ve included a freebie that I really feel like you will enjoy.  The Power of the Other.  This book will break down the different types of connections in order to help you determine which connections are healthy and which are unhealthy for you.

No matter what, and IF WE ARE DOING LIFE RIGHT, WE ALL NEED EACH OTHER at one point or another. You are not in control of that; however  you do have a say so in who to place your trust in during your moment of need.

Enjoy!